Great relationships happen by choice.
We create them. #CREATETHELOVE

Ever wanted to get to know who you really are? I facilitate that meeting. I connect you with you, so you can then connect better with others.

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You Be You. Let The World Adjust.

Before I started writing publicly I sent an article I wrote to a woman I knew who was a “writer”…. Read More →

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This Is Why Religion And Sex Don’t Get Along

Humans are sexual beings. This is a fact that no one can really argue… I mean, it’s what creates us…. Read More →

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You Don’t Have To Come From A Great Family To Create One

We don’t get to choose our families that we’re born into. That’s a truth everyone can understand… and for some… Read More →

Great relationships happen by choice, not by chance.

All relationships are different. Every single one. But in my research and work with those struggling to make sense of relationships gone wrong (along with my own relationship misses), I’ve learned that in order for relationships to thrive, each person needs to bring with them a willingness to reveal themselves and be vulnerable, a desire to grow and learn together, and a sense of humor… because let’s be honest, we all say and do stupid things every now and then. You have to be able to laugh when he leaves the toilet seat up…again, and she makes you watch The Notebook for the 417th time.

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