Great relationships happen by choice.
We create them. #CREATETHELOVE

Ever wanted to get to know who you really are? I facilitate that meeting. I connect you with you, so you can then connect better with others.

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Begin With The End In Mind: Self-Sabotage

What is Self-Sabotage? Self-sabotage exists for a reason. It keeps us perceivably safe – from failure, from rejection, from putting… Read More →

My Top 5 Christmas Gift Suggestions!

“What do you want for Christmas?” “I’m fine. I already have everything I need.”   1. BS.   2. This… Read More →

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Why You Can’t Let Go Of Your Ex (and How To)

So you’re attached to someone. Maybe you two dated for awhile. Maybe you dated and kinda skipped over the whole… Read More →

Great relationships happen by choice, not by chance.

All relationships are different. Every single one. But in my research and work with those struggling to make sense of relationships gone wrong (along with my own relationship misses), I’ve learned that in order for relationships to thrive, each person needs to bring with them a willingness to reveal themselves and be vulnerable, a desire to grow and learn together, and a sense of humor… because let’s be honest, we all say and do stupid things every now and then. You have to be able to laugh when he leaves the toilet seat up…again, and she makes you watch The Notebook for the 417th time.

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